Sometimes when people are super rude or ill mannered, I just stare at them for a good 3 seconds with my eyes opened wide so they can think about what they just said/did. & then I walk away calmly taking steps away from their wretched hatred towards life & negativity.
I SHAN'T deal. Shan't because I choose not to let it affect me - because I CAN if I wanted it to, but I shall not.
I work towards picking and choosing my battles because I've learned that some people are not WORTH the fight because they don't even know their own. If they did, they would value others more & exemplify grace.
But you can't be gracious or be graceful if you yourself are unfulfilled.